Him.
I was never one of the little girls that dreamed about her "Knight in Shining Armor" or fantasized about my dream wedding. I didn't talk out every detail of my ideal husband, the proposal, or wedding. I was too busy following my brothers around and bugging them. Sure, I played with barbies and of course Ken and Barbie got married by me. However, that never brought up any red flags that I would one day be getting married. Even as I got older, and boys didn't have cooties anymore, I still saw marriage as something that wasn't happening except in movies. Besides, I was always taller than the boys in my grade so they were a little scared of me until middle school. Skip ahead, past all the short lived "I love you" middle and high school relationships, to my first serious one. That boy was gonna be it for me. I swore up and down we were going to get married. I thought he was perfect and we were gonna live happily ever after. This was the first time I really ...